Eleven Reason's I'd marry you again!
- He has a relationship with our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. I wanted a partner with whom I could be equally yoked. We both take our spirituality very seriously. Since this is such an important part of my life, I needed this to be an important part of my husband’s life as well. He pays his tithes always. Even in college my husband understood the importance of giving the first 10% of his earnings back to the Lord. I found this incredibly admirable that even at such a young age he was already doing things that demonstrated his obedience to the Lord.
- He respects me and himself. My husband carries himself in such a way that commands respect. It’s obvious in the things that he says and does. Even friends and family have remarked on what a respectful and respectable guy he is. He has never disrespected me or called me names. He's a gentle soul.
- he makes me feel beautiful. My hubby is constantly flirting with me, although not always at the most appropriate times…I still appreciate it. He compliments me if he sees a new hairstyle, new outfit, or even if I've lost a pound or two. He texts me sweet words and winks his eye at me.
- he is very responsible with money. It is important to know whether you are marrying a spender or a saver. I can trust that all of our bills will be paid on time and that he never takes on more financially that we can handle. He is excellent at this job, which makes me feel completely confident in the way he handles the finances. He has a top credit score and gives me the freedom of spending as my heart desires. He gives me the option on whether I want to work or not and is completely content with me choosing not to work.
- he is dependable. My husband has always been a man of his word. When he says he will do something, he does it. He has yet to break a promise that he has made to me.
- he is my best friend and best father for his kids. I can tell my hubby anything and he’ll be there to share in my joy and my sadness. He is the keeper of my secrets and one of my favorite shopping buddies even though he hates shopping. lol. He's such a great dad to his two children. He does whatever it takes to raise them in a happy home.
- he makes me smile. I don’t know how or even what it is exactly, but I’m usually just in a better mood when he’s around. He loves to joke around, play, and have fun.
- he holds me accountable for my actions. This is one quality about him that I love and hate because it forces me to be a better person.. We don’t always want to hear when we know we’re wrong, but this demonstrates to me that he is concerned and responsible for my spiritual growth and development. He doesn't sugarcoat our conversations but tells the truth in love.
- he puts the toilet seat down. This wasn’t something he always did. I’m pretty sure that after me, the nurse, explaining the internal female anatomy, the numerous type of bacteria in/on a toilet and the awful types of nasty, oozy, slimy, smelly, painful infections that one could acquire if their “vag” was to fall in toilet water, he made it a point to start putting the toilet seat down. Not to mention that I did wake him up in the middle of the night to put the lid down too! lol. But, I appreciate his courtesy even though I had to use that scare tactic to get my point across. Oh well, it worked :)
- he takes initiative to do things to please me, surprise me, and keeps the romance blazin!!Every woman has needs (I’m not talking about sex…well not solely). A woman needs to feel loved and every woman perceives love differently. He knows that my love languages are personal time and gifts. lol. He takes the time to go out of his way to do things to make me smile. He'll bring home random gifts such as a starbucks gift card, a puppy with a big red bow, or even my newest baby a bmw. He'll plan dinners, outings, and trips. I love his adventurous side.
- he is quick to forgive. I have learned so much from my husband about forgiveness. I’m mostly learned that it is easy to do if we have the right frame of mind. Sometimes he has to remind me that it is easy to forgive others because of the way in which Christ forgave us.I love you hubby for holding me to that higher standard. He's a humble man that will apology when he's wrong or apology when he's not wrong as well to keep peace.
